"Change happens when we no longer associate with an old identity. We release that old paradigm. We suddenly see ourselves in a new way. And as we integrate that new way of thinking, we find ourselves naturally taking new actions. If you want to change your life, you must begin with changing yourself. You don’t have to be who you were yesterday, or even a moment ago. You can be whoever you want, whenever you want."
"It’s strange, isn’t it, how the idea of belonging to someone can sound so great? It can be comforting, the way it makes things decided. We like the thought of being held, until it’s too tight. We like that certainty, until it means there’s no way out. And we like being his, until we realize we’re not ours anymore."